Understanding the highs, whys, and cries of your twenties
For the love of God, please stop calling me ‘nice’
Have you ever wondered if being the ‘nice girl' hinders your potential to find a romantic partner? Psych-She’s Chloe Evans definitely does, and she delves into why this could be. I know you’re all thinking this headline must be some sort of clickbait, because...
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Bin it? Box it? Burn it? Return it? Should you ditch your exes stuff?
How items left behind from exes after a break up can lead to rumination, resilience, self-discovery and a renewed sense of identity ... read more
Losing yourself in the land of love
Who doesn’t want to fall in love? The idea that this is your life’s purpose has been forced at us from every direction. Social media, ... read more
Facing your fears: Charlotte goes swimming alone
People keep saying that swimming is so good for your mind, especially if it’s cold, and I thought, why not give it a go? But on a ... read more
Bridgerton: Why we want what we can’t have
Much like in Bridgerton 3, when Colin sees Penelope longing after Lord Debling, his feelings for her become even more evident. Why are ... read more
A man in a suit? Send him my way
My 20’s so far have been a magical delusion of romantic comedies starring Hugh Grant, Matt Damon and the never-ageing Paul Rudd who ... read more
We're all a little bit unhinged...
How great are you at sensing danger?
With 44% of Britons admitting to being influenced to buy something, clearly people love to shop online. While this seems innocent enough, being influenced to buy something online is technically a threat to our resources- aka money. So how well has our danger radar...
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The loss in your twenties that nobody talks about
A sense of independence and responsibility was all I longed for when I was younger. But now that I’m here, I want to travel back in time. Why does nobody talk about grieving your childhood in your twenties? I can’t be the only one feeling this way. The possibilities...
OPINION: Why it’s okay to feel worried about the future
As a young person questions over what it is you want to do with your life can feel completely overwhelming. Did I also mention that we are currently in a cost-of-living crisis? Psych-she's Louise gets it and wants to make sure you don't feel alone. When is Gen Z going...
Facing your fears: Issy tries on jeans
I hate buying jeans. So much so I think its been a good 18 months since I bought a new pair because the idea of trying on jeans literally makes my skin crawl. Shopping for jeans in the past has led to this becoming my idea of living hell. I will never forget a...
Why money is the conversation we avoid at all costs
Different savings, career stages, past jobs, upbringing, financial support. Why despite the multitude of varying factors which contribute to the number in your bank account, can the urge to compare money with friends feel overwhelmingly hard to shake off. Psych-she...
All you need is love
We share the same DNA but are worlds apart
Brought up in the same household, by the same parents, experiencing the same childhood yet it is a constant topic of conversation between me and my brother that we really are quite different. Growing up with a brother four years older than me, I spent my childhood...
OPINION: Why wouldn’t you want to be a girl’s girl?
For many of us being a girl's girl is a given. If the person you are seeing slips up, they are automatically cancelled for all. If you majorly fuck up, after some tough love we will all be taking that to our grave, in a room full of girls unwavering love is never far...
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Is ‘the ick’ epidemic fatal?
For many of us, one simple action, phrase or behaviour can change the dynamic of a relationship, and even be grounds for a breakup. But if we can go from being completely attracted to our partner to utterly repulsed by them, can we ever see past an ick? There...
Bin it? Box it? Burn it? Return it? Should you ditch your exes stuff?
How items left behind from exes after a break up can lead to rumination, resilience, self-discovery and a renewed sense of identity through identity reconstruction. For the first time since my girlfriend and I had broken up, I had a girl coming over. I instantly...
The Bridgerton Carriage Scene: how has it captivated us SO much?
If you, like me, are hanging over that cliff of anticipation which Shonda Rhimes has left us on with the new series of Bridgerton, you also know how satisfying, romantic and exciting it has been to finally see the friendship of Polin bloom to something more in the...
Bridgerton: The pressure to not stay single is still alive and well
Bridgerton season 3 has arrived, which means yet again the bachelors are awaiting for the reveal of the ladies to be revealed to society for marriage. It may feel like today the pressure to find a partner has moved far from this outdated set up. But is this...
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Why do I base my romantic relationships on astrology?
After having her heart broken by a Gemini man, Emily Hawtin started to base her interactions with men of what zodiac sign they belonged too. She turned down any air signs, laughed in the faces of fire signs, and even decided to be in a relationship with her current...
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Finding my place as a brown girl in a white world
Here, Tara Nagra investigates the realities of growing up as a brown girl in a western world and details her journey to accepting her place in society. With South Asian girls under 30 years old making up less than 1% of the UK population, it is common for many of...
My boyfriend is gay: Should I support the man that broke my heart?
Rarely do you feel empathy for the person that just broke up with you, but how can you respond to someone who both shattered your heart, and came out as gay. At 17, I had the experience of going through my first breakup. It was my first broken heart, from the first...
It’s murder on the dance floor (literally)
I don’t own a party dress. It’s past my bedtime. The floor is sticky. Everyone is drunk. My friend lost her phone. Someone is being sick. I can’t hear myself think. I want to go home. DJ, I think I killed the groove. “Hey, do you want to go to a club on Friday night?”...
The brutal roasting of the Bridgerton characters
Emily Hawtin, a newly acclaimed Bridgerton addict, unleashes her harsh and unfiltered opinions on each of the characters in season one. So buckle up, and enjoy the ride, as she takes no mercy. As a Bridgerton virgin, when I heard everyone non stop talking about season...
For the phone lovers
Bridgerton: Dear The Spectator, we’ve not finished yet!
After this weeks controversial article by The Spectator, written by Zoe Strimpel, she highlighted her inability to understand why Bridgerton's fictional storyline would cast a woman who doesn't fit the perfect body shape she apparently had in mind when she read the...
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Sometimes we all have got to face our fears
Why wearing no makeup in public isn’t scary!
From putrid minion tops, to an unflattering image appearing in her partners family group chat. Emily Hawtin shares her story on why she dislikes her natural face, and braves five days of wearing no makeup, to prove to herself that bearing your natural face does not...
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Quiz: Who said it: Taylor Swift or Bridgerton?
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Which Bridgerton man would burn for you?
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Messy girl quiz
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